relationship stat

so currently i am in a relationship with a gr8 guy and i need to decide if i feel secure enough with him to continue it.He is everything i would desire and need...in certain areas and so lackin in other aspects I just lost a lot of weoght and im not sure if my insecurities r the prob or if him being soo distant is the prob..we live together and he just doesnt talk to me or embrace me and i feel left in the dark and rejected so easily however he is younger and brilliant doesnt do drugs or try and sell them like most men that age where i reside i mean this man is confident and always stays true to himself and me he is kind and gentle to animals and was accepting of my flws bcuz he wanted to get 2 know me..i am so torn!!!